The Best Places for Sensual Couples Massage: My Top 5 Choices

Whether you are looking to trade giving and receiving wonderful massages with your beloved (all with a bit of sexy spice) or you’re looking to have something a bit more kinky, like bringing someone else in to make it even more incredible; here are my top places for cultivating loving touch time with your partner.

Why You Should Try Sensual Couples Massage? 

A sensual couples massage can be a beautiful place for you to offer your lover the opportunity to get into their body and pleasure fully before turning on any of the sexual energy. Let them let go of the stress of their day and relax into your arms.

Not only does massage, in general, relieve stress and boost physical health, but it can also enhance your communication and emotional connection with your partner. When you engage in loving touch and take sex off the table, even for an hour, you may find that you are better able to talk with your partner about what you’re enjoying the most and what you need to get there.

There is also a beautiful thing, when you take turns giving and receiving, in that the polarity of the roles let you each be in service of each other without it needing to be mutually pleasurable at all times. It gives space for a deeper layer of being with what is true in your body without concern or bypassing based on whether your partner is enjoying themselves (which is of course, super hot when they do!). This may look like a body massage for couples, where they use a variety of touch with hands or body parts on every part of the body including the most sensitive parts ;) It can be a part of self care and relationship building to contribute to each other's needs for physical touch, both sexually and sensually.

By bringing in intimacy that doesn’t have to lead anywhere, you spark your romantic intimacy and all the feel good chemicals that come with loving touch. A couples massage experience might be just what you need to reinvigorate your relationship with sexual desire and emotional intimacy.

Best Places for Sensual Couples Massage

Setting the mood is very important for a couples massage. Giving yourself a place that's distraction-free, relaxing, and inspires intimacy can make a huge difference in how much you are able to drop in to your bodies and your experiences A sexy couples massage, whether this is your first time or if it is a regular part of your relationship practice, is something you can bring into your sensuality anywhere.

A great place to start is with an experienced provider like myself, I can guide you through both the basics of different kinds of touch and techniques as well as help you navigate any dynamics that are getting in the way of your intimacy.

1. Sensual Couples Massage At Home

A sensual couple massage at home is by far my favorite place for this. You are comfortable, you have everything you might need or want, and when you are finished with your massages or whatever comes after ;) you can go straight to bed in your own sweet sanctuary. Some pros to an at home couples massage are:

• you can do it anytime, even if you only have 10 minutes before bed

• requires less preparation, everything you need is right there

• less pressure for it to lead somewhere explicitly sexual or special

Some cons to an at home couples massage are:

• you may feel distracted by the things in your familiar environment

• it may feel less ‘special’ or ‘exciting’ than a dedicated romantic event

• it may be harder to set aside time when there is familiar patterns

My first sensual couples massages were at home given to me by my wonderful boyfriend at the time, a massage therapist, who, through experience, taught me how amazing receiving a massage-turned-sexy can be. Whether it’s in service to the receiver the entire time or if the pleasure focus swaps and the giver can take enjoyment for their pleasure from their now very relaxed lover, it can turn any night into a hot night worth remembering!

2. Sensual Couples Massage On The Beach

A sensual couples massage on the beach, especially when on vacation at some private villa can be a romantic experience that adds to an already amazing getaway. Lay out a towel or blanket, or book a professional massage with a table in a cabana and relax into good hands during your sensual couples massage beach escape.

In certain sunny destinations, like Hawaii, you may be able to find a practitioner that can accommodate your request and teach you and your beloved the art of tantric touch on the beach with the sound of the waves serenading your experience.

3. Sensual Couples Massage In The Jacuzzi

So maybe you’ve experienced a sensual couples massage at home or with a provider and you feel like you have the basics down OR you’re still excited about your first time! Another amazing place for some sexy touch is a sensual couples massage with a hot tub before, during, or after. Hot tubs are a great way to relax muscles, get undressed ;) and float your stress away. Jacuzzis, whether indoor or outdoor, are a great place to start some nice platonic touch that can lead to something more sensual.

You can grab some earplugs and learn a little bit of watsu (a type of practice that combines assisted floating, massage, and stretching techniques in the water), moving to more sexual areas if that’s something you desire.

4. Sensual Couples Massage In the Mountains

I’ve been loving spending time lately in Denver and Boulder, Colorado. Boulder has views in every direction; the flatoirons, the roaring rivers and streams, and the snow capped peaks. A sensual couples massage in Boulder, Colorado can feel like a retreat. I come to Boulder every summer for a month or two, I can’t resist the beautiful wild areas, hot springs, and outdoor sports.

I can see this becoming home base #3 for me. The other two are currently Austin, TX and the San Francisco Bay Area. Full-time traveling is more fun and connected to me when I return to the same areas, so I can create lasting relationships and repeat my favorite adventures.

5. Sensual Couples Massage Surrounded By Friends 

Perhaps an edgy idea, but a fun way to add a little spice or kink to your couples massage would be to do it either in witness or with the participation of your sexy friends.This might mean going to a sex party and having your erotic energy in the presence of others, or this may mean a curated multi-person sensual massage experience.

Once for my partner’s birthday, I put together a party where he received a massage from 8 people at the same time! I paid special attention to his cock and mouth while he had 15 or so other hands on him. If you feel too shy or don’t have the right friends to invite them in for a sexy gathering, you can always hire someone to show you the ropes and help you have an amazing time. Another benefit to having a provider come in is that it has a built in ‘container,’ it’s not an affair, it’s not a friend you’ll see again every week at tennis (possibly awkward!) and they can help you navigate your feelings all while honoring your relationship.

Book Your Sensual Couples Massage With Me

As an experienced provider, I can help you and your beloved spice up your sex life and sink into deeper intimacy by teaching you about the benefits of sensual massage. Whether you’re more vanilla and love the idea of slippery lotion hands, or bodies, all over your soft skin or you like the idea of learning about kink, sensation toys, or power dynamics, I can help you find new ways of looking at your relationship, learn the things you enjoy, and better understand how to pleasure your partner.

Reach out to book a sensual couples massage or sensual couples kink session.